As seems to be typical anymore, I had an interesting bar discussion over the weekend - this time, with a self-described conservative Republican. I say "self-described," because after talking to him, it was difficult for me to see him as a member of the modern-day Republican Party.
Here's a brief rundown of what this man believes:
1) Supports women's reproductive rights
2) Supports gays' rights
3) Supports taxing the rich a bit more
4) Supports conserving our environment
5) Is an NRA member, but supports what he calls "common sense gun-control laws"
6) Does not support the Citizens United ruling
7) Loathes the Tea Party
8) Doesn't believe Ronald Reagan would make it in today's Republican Party
9) Thinks lobbyists are the worst thing since the Antichrist
10) Voted for Bush (W.) twice, McCain, and Romney, in the elections ranging from 2000 to 2012
Reading the first nine points, most people would assume this man was either an Independent or Democrat when it comes to party affiliation, and either moderate or liberal in his ideology. However, then when reading point ten, many would probably have to double-check to make sure they weren't half-asleep or drunk. I know I was quite perplexed when talking to him, but then it hit me.
My mother was a fairly staunch Republican for many years. She briefly protested the party by voting for Jimmy Carter after the Nixon fiasco, but outside of that, she was pretty much a straight-ticket Republican voter. Between 2000 and 2004, however, something happened. As she later told me, "I didn't leave the Republican Party. The Republican Party left me." Ever since then, she's been increasingly liberal and it makes her cringe to think she ever voted for a Republican for president - especially George W. Bush in 2000.
An elderly ex-neighbor of mine spoke to me one time while I was walking my dog around the neighborhood the same thing - "I didn't leave the Republican Party. The Republican Party left me."
While these two individuals have made such a confession about the current state of the Republican Party and have changed their allegiances due to that, I wonder if the person I spoke to at the bar over the weekend and many others like him, while knowing deep down the Republican Party no longer represents them, they still haven't taken that next step by letting go of that allegiance and taking it elsewhere. Maybe it's partially due to having grown up in an extremely partisan (conservative) household, consistently hearing demeaning slogans and talking points at the expense of the Democratic Party, or maybe it's just become a habit which has been difficult to break. In any case, it's about time such individuals finally let go of the past, which is just that, and take the steps necessary to move forward in the present, so it allows them to continually progress in the future. As my mother and neighbor both told me over the past few years, "I didn't leave the Republican Party. The Republican Party left me." It's about time more people whom feel that way come forward, protest the party that left them with their votes going elsewhere on election day, force the GOP to reevaluate itself, and hopefully force it to make some necessary changes.
Here's a brief rundown of what this man believes:
1) Supports women's reproductive rights
2) Supports gays' rights
3) Supports taxing the rich a bit more
4) Supports conserving our environment
5) Is an NRA member, but supports what he calls "common sense gun-control laws"
6) Does not support the Citizens United ruling
7) Loathes the Tea Party
8) Doesn't believe Ronald Reagan would make it in today's Republican Party
9) Thinks lobbyists are the worst thing since the Antichrist
10) Voted for Bush (W.) twice, McCain, and Romney, in the elections ranging from 2000 to 2012
Reading the first nine points, most people would assume this man was either an Independent or Democrat when it comes to party affiliation, and either moderate or liberal in his ideology. However, then when reading point ten, many would probably have to double-check to make sure they weren't half-asleep or drunk. I know I was quite perplexed when talking to him, but then it hit me.
My mother was a fairly staunch Republican for many years. She briefly protested the party by voting for Jimmy Carter after the Nixon fiasco, but outside of that, she was pretty much a straight-ticket Republican voter. Between 2000 and 2004, however, something happened. As she later told me, "I didn't leave the Republican Party. The Republican Party left me." Ever since then, she's been increasingly liberal and it makes her cringe to think she ever voted for a Republican for president - especially George W. Bush in 2000.
An elderly ex-neighbor of mine spoke to me one time while I was walking my dog around the neighborhood the same thing - "I didn't leave the Republican Party. The Republican Party left me."
While these two individuals have made such a confession about the current state of the Republican Party and have changed their allegiances due to that, I wonder if the person I spoke to at the bar over the weekend and many others like him, while knowing deep down the Republican Party no longer represents them, they still haven't taken that next step by letting go of that allegiance and taking it elsewhere. Maybe it's partially due to having grown up in an extremely partisan (conservative) household, consistently hearing demeaning slogans and talking points at the expense of the Democratic Party, or maybe it's just become a habit which has been difficult to break. In any case, it's about time such individuals finally let go of the past, which is just that, and take the steps necessary to move forward in the present, so it allows them to continually progress in the future. As my mother and neighbor both told me over the past few years, "I didn't leave the Republican Party. The Republican Party left me." It's about time more people whom feel that way come forward, protest the party that left them with their votes going elsewhere on election day, force the GOP to reevaluate itself, and hopefully force it to make some necessary changes.
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