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Why Do Some Need This Reminder?

Okay, this goes for the guys out there. What is the one thing you can't tell a woman? What is the #1 thing you can't say to her, whether it's true or not? That she's fat. This is especially true if you like or are interested in her. I can guarantee that if a guy calls a gal fat, she's not going to take much interest or the interest she did once have will be shot.

Why do I bring this up? Well, because a female friend of mine was dating a guy for 3-4 weeks and he called her fat, not once, but twice. The first time, he claimed that he was just being nice and looking out for her health. The second time, he had no excuse or reason to hide behind.

Let's remember that females tend to analyze more than males. If a gal tells a guy, "You eat too much," the guy will probably take it at face value and assume she thinks he's a pig. But, if the guy tells the woman, "You eat too much," how do you think she'll interpret that? Probably, that she's fat.

There are a lot of things you can say to a gal that you're interested in, but her being fat is not one of them. I don't care if it's true or not. Even if you're dating a 600-pound female sumo wrestler who has the nickname "Fatty" by some fans, it's still not a wise move to call her fat. Those that slip up with this mistake don't deserve the girl, plain and simple.
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