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Over an Ex?

It's hard to tell sometimes, isn't it? How do we know? Are there certain things we should look out for and if they occur, then we obviously know we're over the ex? Sometimes it's easy to try to hop right back on the cart and stroll around, looking for someone new to date. Why's this? It could be a lot of things: 1) A rebound. After a player misses badly with one shot and he gets his own rebound, it's very tempting to put it right back up to redeem themself. 2) Revenge. Some feel that by dating someone else right away, they'll somehow be getting back at their ex for whatever happened in their relationship, that somehow, it'll take all the pain that the ex had bestowed upon them. 3) Jealousy. What if the ex finds out? Will that make him or her jealous? Will it make them run back, apologize, and seek your love again? 4) Co-dependence. Some just have a fear of being single. They bounce around from person to person like they are a pinball. Dating someone who...