It cracks me up how so many people claim that they don't have any drama in their lives and that if you have any drama, to head elsewhere. I see this on Facebook profiles and profiles just about everywhere, from social networking sites to dating sites and beyond.
Most everyone doesn't care for drama. Some I think do, but the majority do not. At the same time, I find it laughable when people honestly believe that there is no drama present in their lives and want others to believe this as well, even going so far as to say if these others contain any drama in their lives, to have nothing to do with them.
Sure, we can deny drama all we want, but it's there. If a person is alive, he or she will experience drama. Some experience more drama than others, this is very true. But we all still experience drama at some level or another. Go to school? There will be drama. Work? There will be drama. Have family? Friends? A boyfriend or girlfriend? A husband or wife? Kids? Guess what? there's going to be drama. Planning to take a relaxing vacation? Sorry, there's going to be drama there as well. If any emotion(s) is (are) present within an individual, he or she is going to experience drama.
Personally, I've come to learn that those whom are so adamant and repetitive about their claims of living a drama-free life probably have more drama present in their dramaless life than the majority. Denial is a powerful thing, as is projection.
Do I like drama? No, of course not, but I'm also not going to sit around and say that there's none present in my life, past, present or inevitably in the future. I'll be perfectly fine with anyone who declares they hate drama. That's probably true. No biggy. But for anyone who adamantly declares there's no drama present in their life, I'm going to come back with the question, "Do you breathe?" After I receive an odd look, I'll then say, "Alright then. I'm glad we cleared that up. You have drama in your life."
Most everyone doesn't care for drama. Some I think do, but the majority do not. At the same time, I find it laughable when people honestly believe that there is no drama present in their lives and want others to believe this as well, even going so far as to say if these others contain any drama in their lives, to have nothing to do with them.
Sure, we can deny drama all we want, but it's there. If a person is alive, he or she will experience drama. Some experience more drama than others, this is very true. But we all still experience drama at some level or another. Go to school? There will be drama. Work? There will be drama. Have family? Friends? A boyfriend or girlfriend? A husband or wife? Kids? Guess what? there's going to be drama. Planning to take a relaxing vacation? Sorry, there's going to be drama there as well. If any emotion(s) is (are) present within an individual, he or she is going to experience drama.
Personally, I've come to learn that those whom are so adamant and repetitive about their claims of living a drama-free life probably have more drama present in their dramaless life than the majority. Denial is a powerful thing, as is projection.
Do I like drama? No, of course not, but I'm also not going to sit around and say that there's none present in my life, past, present or inevitably in the future. I'll be perfectly fine with anyone who declares they hate drama. That's probably true. No biggy. But for anyone who adamantly declares there's no drama present in their life, I'm going to come back with the question, "Do you breathe?" After I receive an odd look, I'll then say, "Alright then. I'm glad we cleared that up. You have drama in your life."
You want drama? Go on Facebook. More drama than MTV, lol
ReplyDeleteHaha. You're not kidding! Is it a coincidence that the film "The Social Network" is a drama? I think not! lol.
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